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What Escorting Has Taught Me About Men

What Escorting Has Taught Me About Men

It’s no secret that when I was 37, I jumped ship from 9-5pm office life as a journalist, slipped into stockings and suspenders, and became a high class escort. If you’ve ever watched Billie Piper in A Secret Diary of a London Call Girl TV series, you’ll see why. I was...

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Michelle Bridges Needs Empathy, Not a Public Shaming

Michelle Bridges Needs Empathy, Not a Public Shaming

When I read Michelle Bridges had been done for drink driving with her five year-old son Axel in the back of the car, I felt sick. The Twitter trolls were quick to condemn, as they always are  - baying for her blood, bad mother tweets, irresponsible, selfish….for...

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Sober Is Sexier

Sober Is Sexier

There was a time, I wistfully recall, when my inbox was full of unsolicited dick pics, marriage proposals and intrigue about my job as an escort… Did I kiss? (Do I have to?) What was my strangest request? (Not as exciting as you think). What was the first time like?...

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Jobs Men Do And What It Means In The Bedroom: Part II

Jobs Men Do And What It Means In The Bedroom: Part II

A few weeks ago I wrote about how good a man was in bed depending on his job. It got a lot of attention and my inbox was flooded with messages from men informing me how ‘wild’ sales account managers were, or asking me what farmers were like. I even got an email from...

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What His Job Means For Your Sex Life

What His Job Means For Your Sex Life

Here’s a secret. Most women I meet, whether it be school mums, housewives or professionals, have confessed to me that at some point in their lives they’ve thought about being a ‘lady of the night.’ (By the way, 90 per cent of my jobs were in the day, but I digress..)...

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There Were Three In The Bed…

There Were Three In The Bed…

Last week I shattered your illusions by admitting the kind of action I got between the sheets as an escort was rather vanilla. Now I am going to surprise you again. When it comes to my own personal (non existent) love life, I am extremely traditional. I’ve never been...

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What Men Really Want In Bed

What Men Really Want In Bed

A few months ago, I had an evening out with a TV reality star (yes it was as painful as you can imagine) and when we were introduced, she looked at me incredulously and asked: “Are you some kind of PORN STAR?” The urge to fire back “Are you?” was overwhelming. Instead...

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Wife’s ‘Embarrassing’ Sex Request

Wife’s ‘Embarrassing’ Sex Request

His name was Paul. An accountant by trade, a husband and dad, and this particular afternoon in Sydney, he was my client. There was nothing out of the ordinary or remarkable about Paul — except his words when he handed over his fee. “This is from my wife,” he said,...

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My Juiciest Secret Working In The Escorting Business

My Juiciest Secret Working In The Escorting Business

Another bloody sex column, right? You’re here to read the important stuff — politics, business, the way the world works. What has sex got to do with news? I’m going to let you in on a little secret. The whole world is about sex. Politics is about sex. Business is...

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Sex Work Isn’t Dangerous, Violent Men Are

Sex Work Isn’t Dangerous, Violent Men Are

So far, as details unfold of the two victims from Tuesday’s horrific knife rampage in Sydney, we know one was a woman who was stabbed in the back while walking in the city. And we are being told the other victim, who died, was 24-year-old female escort Michaela Dunn....

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Q&A

Falling in love

I was wondering if you can give me some advice if possible? It’s about a girl that I like and she is an escort. I have been seeing her for 2 months,  we talk mainly and she does call me if she needs something like seeing a GP . I have kept distance with women all my life she is the first girl I got to be intimate with and I really like that we laugh and go for drives. Do you think if I show her how much she means to me one day she will consider being with me . I am an old fashioned guy, I want love, commitment and perhaps family one day. I know I’m asking her alot to give up her profession and be with me but I will support her and treat her like she deserves. Any advice you have I’ll be very greatful.  I do like her and waiting patiently for one day to have her with me all the time as in not by hrs. Thank you so much.

Need Advice Please

Hi Sam, I’ve been in a relationship for 2 months now and everything is going great, batting well above my average, she’s an amazing girl. Thought she was studying law at uni wich she is, but is supplementing her income escorting.
2 questions:
1. How do I deal with this, she’s an amazing girl we get along like best friends and the love I have for her is crazy. So I worry about jealousy and my insecurities with this profession.
2. Secondly I want to stay with her as I love her and she loves me but should we speak to family about this career?
I appreciate any advice, very difficult time.

Dilemma

Dear Sam, I want to say thank you for giving a voice to in the media to those who are rarely heard.

My girlfriend of 2 years is an escort and I love it when she dresses up for her clients and feel comfortable privately with what she does. Our relationship is the best I’ve been in – i’ve dated doctors, lawyers etc in the past and I’ve clashed as it’s been two career orientated people. Our relationship involves a complete openness which I find refreshing.

My problem is, we are planning to have a baby in the future and I want to introduce my girlfriend to my family. Any tips on how to approach it? She is 35 and i’m 33.

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